Cleaning Up

When I took Bryon to NY, we visited a cave. I bumped my head and fell on my butt. After we ate lunch, I sat on my sweatshirt as I drove to NY to keep mud off the seat. (We were in a cave, it’s cool.) Unfortunately, some blue die got transferred from the sweatshirt to the driver seat. I tried leather cleaner and mild soap with no success. This week, I took the car to a detailer to see what they could do. I have to say, they did a great job. The car looks new. Except for the driver’s seat. I have the world’s only Honda Accord Hybrid Touring with red paint and white leather upholstery that has a blue streak on the driver’s seat back. It doesn’t affect the car’s performance, but it sure makes it unique. After I brought the car back, I decided I should wash the Leaf. We wouldn’t want the Leaf to feel unloved. I also cleaned the deck and porch. That used to be a one-day job. Now it’s a definite two-day job.

Bud is still having problems adjusting to his new quarters at BrightView. The staff have been excellent. They communicate frequently and clearly. Danita had to sign some permission papers, including one that was eleven pages of dense legalese. The staff were surprised when she had only one question.

This was a week of some misplaced excitement. Danita has been trying to get Bud’s 1099 since February. We saw a document in the mail preview that we were getting something from the Office of Personnel Management. It looked like we were done. Unfortunately, it was only confirmation that our address was corrected. Danita requested the 1099. Again. Her goal is to be able to submit Bud’s 2021 taxes before the 2022 taxes are due.

I don’t remember if I already said this, but we hit the jackpot with Mom’s I-Bonds. The Treasury Direct folks beat their deadline by three weeks. All of Mom’s bonds are online and retitled.

I hope this finds everybody doing well.

Getting back to normal

Bud’s old room is cleared out. Almost everything has been relocated, donated, or disposed of. We have one more Goodwill trip. Not surprisingly, Bud has had some trouble adjusting to his new surroundings. Hopefully everything will settle down quickly.

We’ve had a nice break in the weather. I’ve had some nice bike rides. There’s not much else going on. I hope this finds everybody doing well.

A Few Busy Days

Danita and I drove up to bring Bryon back, staying overnight in Gibson. Last week after dropping Bryon off, my right knee was quite painful. It hurt to walk for several days. Going up and down stairs was troublesome. I bought a heavy duty knee brace. Driving up it felt like the brace wasn’t doing anything. But when we go to Gibson, my knee was fine. It was also fine Sunday when we got home. It’s one of my better $75 purchases. The brace has earned a permanent home in the Honda’s trunk.

Lines at the airport this morning were insane. The service counter line to get a gate pass was horrendous. Two security check points were closed. Anxiety levels were high. Nevertheless, we made it to the gate 15 minutes before boarding was scheduled to start. As it happened, the flight crew were coming in on another flight that was running late. We ended up cooling our heels for an extra half hour.

We also got Bud moved from Riderwood to BrightView today. His first day there, he joined a group going out to Longhorn steak house for lunch. That’s not a bad way to start things out. Everything Bud needs is in his BrightView room. We’ll join Ed & Lynne tomorrow cleaning out The Riderwood apartment. After tomorrow, things should start getting back to normal.

I hope this finds everybody doing well.

Grandkids

We had a fun week with the grandkids. Now we’re exhausted. We had a couple of “interesting” experiences this week. We spent a couple of days in the Lancaster area, staying at the Red Caboose Hotel. The second day we decided to go to the Turkey Hill Ice Cream Experience on Linden St. We set the GPS and took off for adventure. It turns out that Linden St. in the Lancaster area is like Voltaire St. in France, or Lincoln Park in Iowa. After half an hour of driving, we found ourselves on the wrong Linden St. The highlight of the Experience is making a pint of your own flavor of ice cream. After that the entire pint of ice cream is promptly consumed. These are timed tickets with every time slot filled to the max. We took off for the correct Linden St. We arrived, walked directly to our ice cream lab, and they closed the door behind us. I don’t generally enjoy standing in lines, but standing in line is a lot less stressful than sliding in at the last second.

Liz took a flight home Saturday morning because her school starts early. Bryon decided he wants to spend a week with Ryn working on the farm. So I drove Bryon up to Gibson, PA where I would meet Ryn and transfer Bryon. To break up the 4-hour ride, we stopped at the Echo Dell Cave. It was a nice tour. Smart phone cameras are absolutely amazing. I got several very good available light pictures just holding the phone. Somehow the electronics takes a long exposure while un-jiggling the picture to compensate for my jiggling hands. As the tour was about to end, I walked into the ceiling. Then I fell on my butt. I remember thinking “I hit my head, why am I going to fall on my butt?” Then I bruised myself and made my pants absolutely filthy from the wet clay floor. The head wound bled. It being a head wound, there was blood everywhere. I made a bee-line for the outdoors with blood all over my face and hands. I went up the 71 steps. The Echo Dell folks sent somebody out to give me a hand. They gave me a roll of paper towels, two ice packs, free passes for a future visit, and a bottle of cold water. The wound didn’t bleed for long. I was able to clean the blood in their wash room. Then we ate our lunch at their picnic table (as planned) while I held ice packs on my head (as not planned). I didn’t have a spare pair of pants, so I washed them out in the hotel as best I could.

Ryn and I had a lot of fun working out an elaborate transfer process for Bryon. It involved encrypted messages, flashing lights, beeping horns, and more. It was so complicated we ended up just using the token I created by tearing a playing card and mailing one half to Ryn.

Danita and I will drive up to Gibson together next weekend. On the way back, we plan to stop at a car museum. Hopefully, that will be safer than a cave.

I hope this finds everybody doing well.

Grandkids

Bryon and Elizabeth are visiting us this week. We’ve been doing many fun activities. Our biggest surprise was driving from the Baltimore Zoo to Mom’s place at Charlestown. Our GPS took us through some neighborhoods I have never before visited. I actually saw three men sitting on a porch passing around a brown paper bag. Fortunately, we had no mishaps. Here’s a picture of us with Mom, and another with Ed, Lynne, Addi, and Suzanne. Tomorrow we’re driving up to Lancaster. We are staying at the Red Caboose Hotel.

Bud

Danita tried the Roving Radish. She got two meat dinners. Each dinner has everything you need to cook, down to the spices. Food is locally sourced where possible. There is enough food for two nights with additional leftovers for a lunch or two. The ingredients are high quality. The cost is quite reasonable. One dinner was quite tasty. The other was OK.

I made progress with Mom’s I-Bonds, sort of. Mom wanted to send her paper bonds in to TreasuraryDirect so she could retitle them to be in her trust. I sent the bonds and waited 4 weeks as indicated by their website. At the end of the 4 weeks, I saw zeroes everywhere in her account. TreasuryDirect doesn’t accept Emails unless you have an open case. So I called as soon as they were open. I was rewarded with a wait time of only 45 minutes. The advisor verified the bonds were logged in June 10. He said I had to allow 13 weeks for processing. If 13 weeks doesn’t sound ominous enough, the end of the 13 week wait will be 9/11. <Queue ominous background music.>

I had my post-op eye exam from my cataract surgery. I passed. My vision is excellent. I could get progressive glasses with a mild correction and wear them all the time. Or I could get readers and spend my days wondering around looking for my glasses. I haven’t decided what to do.

We were planning to attend a Lurman Woodland Blues concert this evening. Unfortunately, the Blues band cancelled. They got a Rockabilly band instead, whatever that is. The probability of rain this evening seems to be going up. We decided to nix the concert. We had a nice neighborhood concert at the clubhouse last night, along with wine and cheese. It was a good time.

The big news is that Danita and her siblings decided that her dad, Bud, should move. He will be moving into BrightView. This is a lot closer to where we live. We think their program will be a good match for Bud’s Alzheimer’s. There’s mountains of paper work, evaluations, medical tests, and logistics. It’s a busy and stressful time for Danita.

This Week in Pics

Concert at Lurman Woodland
It’s turtle nesting season. A resident marked nests so they don’t get mowed by the grounds crew.
Free hotdogs at the pool. Half the people were off to the right, in the shade.
Columbia puts on an incredible fireworks show.
Bolts holding my bike together should not sheer off. The dealer fixed it under warranty.
Wasps are wildlife but not welcome.

Dani!

It was great to have dinner with Dani, Gayle, and Mom. Fortunately, the weather was good. We picked a restaurant with outdoor dining and chose a Monday, because restaurants are usually least crowded on Mondays. I can’t imagine what this place is like on the weekends, because it was definitely hopping on Monday. It’s easy to see why. The food was unique and quite good.

We had an unusual neighborhood event. One of the cyclists invited neighborhood cyclists to a 20 mile bike ride to Savage Mill Mall. Six of us took the ride. I’ve made this ride many times. It’s mostly on trails. It is very well shaded. And it terminates at a bakery. I had given up on the bakery. Their food was expensive and not very good. What I didn’t know is that the bakery was taken over by Roggenart. I ate my food bar while everybody else had a nice pastry. Lesson learned.

I’m not sure if I’ve already said this, but I stopped supporting our neighborhood’s office computers. I still support our website and a resident database, but all other computer support has been turned over to Bob. This week we hired a new events coordinator. We needed a new Email address and a few other changes. It felt very strange, because people were still sending requests to me. I kept on forwarding requests, questions, and answers between the players. I hope we finally have everybody wired up so requests go where they should go next time. One nice thing — Bob called me with a question about about our office network. I was on the Savage Mill ride and didn’t return the call for a couple of hours. Fortunately, the documentation I had written included the information he needed. He was able to do everything without my help. It’s nice when effort becomes useful.

That’s it for this week. I hope this finds everybody doing well.

Plenty of Entertainment

We’re having plenty of entertainment last week and this. Last Saturday was a concert at Lurman Woods. We attended the last symphony concert of the season Sunday. We had a total if three food trucks this week. We’re leaving in a bit to attend the play “Night Watch” at Essex Community College. When we get home, it’s a free ice cream party at the clubhouse. Dani and Gayle are down visiting Mom. We’re all going out together for dinner Tuesday.

With all that excitement, there’s no room for news! I hope this finds everybody doing well.

Bummer Friday

The Navy Sea Chanters last Sunday were quite good, but they only did one sea chant. I guess all the other chants weren’t suitable for a family concert in a church.

We had a bang-up day planned for Friday. It was sunny and very hot. I took an easy bike ride on well-shaded trails. I was just about to turn around and head home when my gear shifter stopped working. The cable broke. The bike has four cables. This is the most important one. There is no such thing as a jury rig fix for a broken cable. Good thing it was an easy ride. There were a few hills I had to walk up, but it wasn’t all that bad. When I got home I drank water in the air conditioning for a while, then I removed my jury rig bike rack and took off for the bike shop. It’s almost all down hill from our house to the bike shop, but I still had to some walking to do. Danita gave me a ride home. By the time we got home and had dinner, we missed the Marine Corps band concert. After dinner, we went downstairs to watch the last of our recorded TV shows for the season. About half way through, the shows were preempted by the President’s comments following the mass shooting in Texas. We could have streamed the show, but it felt like the perfect ending for a bummer of a day. We called it quits.

Today is perfect weather — cool and sunny. Too bad I won’t be riding.

I hope this finds everybody doing well.